...so now what?

Meet Bobby. Bobby is my ex-boyfriend. He called me last night and surprised me. We have tried dating three times and all three times ended badly. I won't go into details, but suffice to say, it was not pretty.

Now, the kicker is, Bobby has always treated me like a queen. He has always had a special place in my heart and twice that we ended was my fault, once was his. Somehow it has never been the right time. I am not looking for a relationship now. I don't WANT one. But he showed up last night and said, "I want you back in my life." Now, I have made it clear to him that I am not in a position to have a boyfriend now, nor do I want to go through the breaking up again. I am too busy with school to focus on a relationship at the moment. But I do love Bobby. He has a special place in my heart. He makes me feel special. And that is nice. *sigh* I ask again...

...Now what?